Top 20 Letting Go Quotes
Loss is a natural part of life, but sometimes it can be hard to go about letting go and moving on. Whether you’ve lost a loved one, ended a romantic relationship or just lost touch with a friend, these letting go quotes can help you in the process of accepting what’s happened and moving on.
Top 20 Letting Go Quotes
1. “When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.” – Alexander Graham Bell
2. “We can never turn back the pages of time, though we may wish to relive a happy moment, or say goodbye just one last time, we never can, because the sands of time continue to fall, and we can’t turn the hourglass over.” – Unknown
3. “Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.” — Herman Hesse
4. “One problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on us.” – Michael Cibenko
5. All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.” – Havelock Ellis
6. “In everyone’s life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.” – Albert Schweitzer
7. “Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, and you fight to let go.” – The Wonder Years
8. “There’s no need to miss someone from your past- There’s a reason they didn’t make it to your future” – Unknown
9. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” – Headstone
10. “Every exit is an entry somewhere.” -Tom Stoppard
11. “True love doesn’t have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you.” – Unknown
12. “There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.” – Unknown
13. “Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head.” – Ann Landers
14. “We need in love to practice only this: letting each other go. For holding on comes easily–we do not need to learn it.” – Rainer Maria Rilke
15. “Every breath is an opportunity to receive and let go. I receive love and I let go of pain.” – Brenda MacIntyre
16. “When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu
17. “Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.” – Anonymous
18. “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.” – Dr. Seuss
19. “We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us.” – Joseph Campbell
20. “The Tao Te Ching says, When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need. Have you ever struggled to find work or love, only to find them after you have given up? This is the paradox of letting go. Let go, in order to achieve. Letting go is God’s law.” – Mary Manin Morrissey
nakakainis nga lang,bakit may mga handlang pa…..napakasakit kaya to let go the person you love so much,di ko kakayanin yon baka magpakamatay pa ako…
wag ka naman ganyan.. isipin mu nalng na may dahilan bakit ito nangyayari. isipin mu kaya tayo iniiwan ng mga taong mahal natin dahil mas may better pang darating. na mas okay, na itinadhana sa iyo. naransan q rin nyang, nahirahapan din aq, pero ngayon tanggap q na na hindi na talaga kami pwede. natakot na nga aqng magmahal eh, pero go with the flow muna aq for now. okay rin namang maging single eh. try not to think about him/her and you will learn how to smile again. like what i did.
ur right and i adore u for that comment of yours.
May mga bagay na pag hinanapan natin ng rason kung bakit nangyari ay sya pang nagpapagulo ng sitwasyon . sa lahat ng pagsubok may nakalaan na solusyon. kung ano man ito maaring hindi madaling gawin , ngunit ito ang tamang paraan.
yah!!!ur right…!!:)
n0w i understand the meaning of letting go, it’s very hard 2 accept the fact that u nid 2 let go of some0ne u really love becAuse s0meb0dy owned him.. In sh0rt,married na sya!0uch…
nakz naman.. pwede ka relate.hahaix, ganyan talaga sa case q in a relationship xa. ganun talaga noh. meron pang darating, basta buksan mu lang ang puso mu sa iba at wag kang matakot magmahal
masakit tlga pra syo mag let go sa taong mahal mo..khit ako sinasabi ng isip ko ok i can let go but in my heart a big NO!!!!kya lng its very complicated..im married but his separated….but im not happily married po…
tama….!
natuto tayong magmahal, kaya kailangan, kung msaktan ka man kailangan matuto ka ring maglet go para hindi ka mhirapan. everything has a reason.
its really hard to let go of someone you want to be with the rest of your life….ang hirap mag mahal ng married..but wala akong choice but to let him go…
yeah!!! ur ryt
I am happy that I made it !!! I let go the pain, I let go the anger, I let go the feelings I kept for him. It’s hard but I need to do and need to focus on my goal in life with my two precious daughters..I thought I cannot make it, but I was wrong It’s easy to let go all things, all thoughts and all the feelings you have if you try to thing your future and the path you want to have for you…I realized and a designed the path for me and for my two inspiration and alas I made it…
Now that I learned to let go, I am now start moving on to the the path and to accept the fate which is intended for me..I stop thinking the sorrows and the pain of yesterday, move on and make the best of everything today for a better tomorrow…They said moving on is twice as hard of letting go…but for me moving on is easy to do when you start to learn how to let go !!!
I am now starting a new beginning in life, as we end the year we need to leave all behind the sad experienced we once have, start a new life for the new year and for the next many many years..We never knew..one of this day we will meet the person who really meant for us…FATE will lead us to that path, just don’t stop believing on HIM (GOD), he will lead us and and will give us better than we have before…Have a positive outlook in life!!! Cheers and Smile always !!!!
Aimee,
Thanks for your strong words. I have known for awhile that it was over but I choose to hold on because it was the right thing..but your right moving on is twice as hard of letting go…it is when you love someone and have children. I hope to also find my new begining.
Cheers to you and much happiness to you.
Hello Lisy, It’s not hard to move on as long as you started to let go all the feelings inside of you, let go the pain and little by little you will find out that you are starting moving on.. I was in deep pain 2 times, but as we experienced hardship it make us a better person and we will knew who really we are…I am happy that I made it..Now I am starting to open myself into possibility to find a new beginning with my two daughter (and soon a new partner if given a chance), I am proud to say that I am a single mom and will raise and mold my kids in a right way..I am not ashame and will face all with pride…This is my fate and FATE will lead us too to find a new and better path someday but sooner rather than later..
Now I already burried the past and stop mourning, for there will be a better tomorrow ahead that need to face..I am ready to face it in a possitive way with the Guidance of our GOD we can make it…
Im letting go also of her!
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– nyc oNe!!..gUd dCsiOn..
im trying to let go but its hard when the person your trying to let go wont let you… ive tried everything n the more i try the more he treats me like crap and its not only me its my family like his trying to get them out of my life like he dis my friends so then i have no one but him…
how do you let go of someone whos completely obsessed with you???
Restraining order haha
how can i move on if his still there for me?he still told me that he loves me so much?
I still cant figure out how to move on…..hes stuck in my head 24/7 because people talk about him all the time. He still means a lot to me even though he acts like he doesnt care…
im sure she still love you
yeah, i wonder the same thing.. how do you let go of someone when they are the first thing you think about when you wake up, and the last person you think about before you go to bed? He acts like he doesnt care, but he calls almost everyday, but conversation is so short, “hey how are you, okay good, ok bye”. Why does he continue to call? Is he leaving me hanging by a string? We have broken up in the past before, but this time it is different. This time, we have kept in contact ( all of a minute conversations everday) but I feel we wont get back together… it seems like everything I say to him pisses him off, but he still continues to call.. I just dont get it. . . I miss him so much.
Ask God to help you and show you his will. Accept that healing needs to happen now. I am going through the same thing. Seems like the more a person hurts you, the more you love them. But i truely believe there is nothing that can stop God’s will, and theres nothing that can prevent you from recieving it. Only continue seeking- and in seeking you will find, if your heart is good, you will find the possessor of it.
Girl i know how you feel. im sorry that he is putting you through that and honestly if you feel that it is hurting you to continue taking his calls, then stop! dont answer. i know that is going to be hard but seriously do it and i know that you will feel better and yes i will not lie it will hurt and you will feel like you have a HUGE hole in your heart but over time the pain will slowly start to subside and fall to the wayside. and you will be able to allow yourself to be happy again, i know i have been there and am still going through it. if you ever need someone to talk to just shoot me an email and we can talk. my email is and my name is Megan but everyone calls me Meggs
At the same time of letting go, one should know if others aren’t ready to embark on a relationship. That in itself is how to love someone- to not take advantage, give false hope or get them in over their head. I see too often many don’t take time to heal. I know myself that simply being with another won’t erace old wounds or miraculously awaken new love as a replacement. Besides, why carry out that recent hurt into a new relationship? I think at the same time as thinking with our heart or emotions, our head must be there clear otherwise we make a huge mistake. That in itself is throwing our life away. To care for another is to see that their heart is broken and bound with turmoil. Either point them in the right direction or bow out. You can still be as a friend while letting go.. Letting go is the same as waiting for when another is ready. Like the saying “Let go, if it comes back it was yours, if not, it never was”. ..
I recently lost a loved one who was very dear to me. My first time to lose someone over death…its very painful especially that I was close to that person…it has just been less than a month and everyone wants everybody to move on but I still find myself the only one who couldn’t smile…I miss you so much…………………………
yes! pinilit nating kalimutan pero! napaka istupido nalang na minsan iniisip mo pa cya!
I’ll let her go now!
i will move on :’(
Good
dats good:)
The most hurtful thing to do is to let go of someone u expect to spend the rest of your life with, the one who made u feel special like you are the most precious thing in the whole world..but life is very ironic, u both loved each other but u ended up losing each other but then again when u learn to let go and move on u fall in love again and think this is the right one for me..if only people can love without expectations then it wouldn’t hurt much..but to love means to accept whatever pain is coming on your way..u did your best, i did mine but its not enough..so we never really are for each other..i don’t know the real score between me and my bf..we do have cultural differences but i’m always optimistic its not the real problem,the problem is people makes the relationship complicated,,
Yes!!I’m a bullhead,pickle minded(mostly girls are),sometimes lazy,big eater(but not fat)lol..and etc..so it makes him hard to accept it,that it made him lost his love for me..so i wonder its not love u feel for me then..because i don’t care if he snores so loud,if he is vegetarian(like im totally not),he likes walking for kilometers,he is totally boring sometimes but i still want to be with him..simply because he is a good man and i just want to be in his arms,i feel complete and secure when im with him..but this is not the way he thinks..so i guess i must learn to spell this L-E-T G-O A-N-D M-O-V-E O-N!!!!!!!!!!
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wow! i feel the EXACT same way… he is completly boring sometimes, and their are cultural differences, but I still want to be with him… I love him!
my bf broke up with me 7 months ago.. little did i know that he is seeing someone else after a week of our break up.. we have been together for 4 years, we live in one house for almost 3 years.. until now, i’m still here waiting for him even though i know that he have a girlfriend.. he still contact me saying he misses me, and he still loves me but he cant let go of the girl because he don’t wanna hurt her too.. we were very close, he’s my best friend, he’s like a brother and a father to me.. I tried everything to forget about him, but still i can’t.. i don’t know what to do.. I know its over.. i don’t want this feeling anymore.. i feel so alone.. what do i do?
Hello Jing, It’s hard when you are in the situation like this..But if I am in your feet I will let him go, because If you will not let go the feelings you will continuously feel the pain and will hurt you everytime to remember that you are not the only one in his life..Learn to accept the fact that he is not faithful, that he is selfish, he is just look after on what he feel and not what others feelings. But the decision is all up to you, if you want to continuously hurt your feeling stay on you situation, however if you want to have a new beginning and to feel happy, better for you to let go and move on to a new life..Design your path, be the captain of your own ship decide for the better, I am sure you will feel fullfiled, happiness will be the next and will be out of the bondage of life you are experiencing right now..
I hope that my words of advice will give you a better outlook and start to let go the feelings and him, so for you to start moving on..I know you can make it …Cheers…
Aimee, thank you so much for your advice.. I guess you’re right.. I will look on the brighter side of life.. i don’t wanna be hurt anymore.. I will do my best to forgive and forget, i know it’s not that easy but i’m sure as time goes by i will be happy again.. my heart felt lighter after reading your message..
from the bottom of my heart, i want to say thank you.. ^^ ♥
Hello Jing !! You are always welcome and I am really after for our sake.. I am happy that my words enlightened you and make you think what is better for you…Me too I have a lot of trials before till now, but since I leaned to accept the reality and let go the pain, the hatred, I found out that I am starting moving on…You made a right decision for not hurting yourself anymore..More power and God Bless you always..Be strong and confident…Cheers !!!
Thank you Aimee.. ^^
I wish i would be like you..
i had nobody else to talk to..
Don’t worry jing, I am always here if you want somebody to talk with, if you want someone to give some advices, if you want somebody to laugh with (but we will laugh thru writting ha ha haha!!), don’t hesitate to write me a message…You can make it !! There is nothing impossible of you have determination !!!Just always wear a smile and the world will smile at you !!! God Bless
I’m 17 and 5 months ago my first boyfriend decided he didn’t want me anymore. I’m still not okay. I don’t even know where to begin in describing how I felt… It was pure devastation. I think when we do get over an excruciatingly painful loss we often forget just how horrible we really felt when it first hit us. I’ve spent months thinking and rethinking about what went wrong and what was wrong with me and how I might get him back. But yesterday evening I found out that he was with someone else. I was in my own hell; I would have rather lost an arm than dealt with the pain of knowing that everything that had once belonged to me now belonged to someone else – his lips, his hands, his face, his voice. It was awful, and I want people to know that even if they feel like no one understands the pain they’re feeling over the loss of a relationship, others HAVE felt that pain too. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, but guess what? It goes away. You almost never realize this while you’re crying and miserable, but that’s the way it works. You cry, and you get better. And as the months go by, you’ll get better and better, and by the time years come along you’ll be able to look back and not feel pain.
The second piece of advice I have is that APPRECIATING the pain you feel will work wonders for you. If you explore yourself and see that you’re sad, agree to be sad – for a little while. Soon you’ll be able to look at your own sadness – a tiny human emotion in comparison to how overwhelmingly beautiful the universe and this planet are – and smile. You’ll learn to treat your sad self like a baby, and care for it as you would a sick baby. Picture a version of you that is much, much bigger than your small human body hovering over you, simply watching over you. That’s the real you, and you’ll be fine.
Nothing is truly yours anyway – you can look at everything you own (items, relationships, even beliefs) as being on rent from whoever or whatever created us. As Stuart Wilde put it, if you come home and find your stereo missing just shrug and say, “Oh, they’ve come for the stereo,” because it was never really yours in the first place. Someone else has it now, and one day you’ll own a store full of stereos that others will rent from you. Things come and things go, and if you accept that and learn to be grateful for the things you do have WHEN you have them, you’ll never feel lack.
I love you all
i’m finally let him go. para maging happy na rin aq. everybody deserves happiness. masaya na kasi sya eh. masaya narin aq sa kanya
well , i knew the meaning of letting go and i also knew that there is no end to be ended coz every end is a new start ..
the thing is i have to hold my past while am living to reach the future that is going to be past anyway
so i will be alive to gather my past …
how do i control the fellings that i had ..how do i continue ,,
how do i trust …..for me friendship means the life ..u can let go of a bf ,husband,toy but for me letting go of a best friend cant be that easy however i did it and after a while i saw my old friend and i didnt recognise her its like i havent known her ever she was diferent but in a very bad and shallow way
she were telling me how happy and free sshe is but deep inside i said thank god
coz i did let go of her coz i knew that she werent that happy and she couldnt find a real friend againe ….ppl every thing happen for a reason ..god loves us so thank him for being the way we are ..kinda
i knw it hurts most to see him again….i tot everything is fine after we talk.but until now,his X ____ still the special person of his life!!wa’ta F!!!all i want lng naman is to be her one and only PRINCESS of his life…and to 4get his past life!!a life that,f other will just know????…a forbidden and complicated lovelife!!!nothing else.!!.;(but i was wrong….i cant resist to asked my self,f he loves me???who am i to his life.?just a toy,f he needs it,he can use me??……but now?????i learned!!!hinde na niya aq magagago ulit!!!the past happend,is enuf!!!no tears any more!!cuz,big gurls dont cry anymore!!!i most move on and take that as a night mire.!!
Hi everyone!
Just letting go is the answer to people problems. I know its easier said than done.
But we have to do it.
–hello everyone!!.. ganyan talaga ang buhay pag-ibig kumbaga sa laro pag talo kah kelangan mOng tanggapin pero sa susunOd na laro gawin mo ang lahat para ipanalo yung laban. . . at kung ang pag ibig ang pag-uusapan, pag nabigo kah sa una wag kang susuko dahil ganyan talaga ang buhay pag-ibig may nasasaktan..(naranasan q na ring masaktan pero HND aq sumuko ‘coz i know may dahilan kung bak8 nangyari ang lahat ng yun’.. sa ngayOn masaya aq sa piling ng minamahal q.. and i’m so thankful of him kasi hnd nya aq pinabayaan at hnd nya hinayaan na masaktan aq ulit.. I LUV HIM VERY MUCH..).. sana maranasan din ng iba ang naranasan kOng kaligayahan sa ngaUn.. ‘coz everybody deserves happiness..
I really don’t know what to do now. I’m really in love with a guy but it seems like my best friend loves him too. Since they’re so close from each other, i thought that she must have a bigger advantage than i do. So my question goes this way, do I have to hold on to him, or shall I let go of him for her? Please help me. Thank you.
HELLO SHIFT! If you really like him, why not do what is necessary..Have you confirmed that your bestfriend is his Girlfriend already? You must do what your heart feel and what your heart said atleast you try it, or you might regret it for the rest of your life for not following what your heart feels..So go !! You may never know that he likes you more than your bestfriend even thay always together..Okay follow your heart ! God Bless !!!
HOW CAN I LET HIM GO.. HELP NMAN?? di ko alam sa lahat ng naging bf ko siya yung sobra sobra kung mahal kahit alam kung bawal dahil naging sila ng cous ko na super closed kupa. sobrang naging complicated ng relation namin madaming nasaktan at nagalit alam ko. pero masaya aku sa kanya kahit sa 2weeks na naging kami pinahalagahan ku yun kung pwedi kulang mapigilan ang oras kapag kasama ku siya gagawin ko. october 26, 2010 sa kanya ku binigay yung desisyun kung itutuluy pa nmin rel namin dahil yung cous ko kinukuha siya sakin, nung naka pag decide na cya maayos kaming nag kahiwalay. then inisip kuna nun na wala na tlga mag move nlang ako.. pero nung october 28,2010 nag karoon nanaman kami ng communication dahil na miss nya daw aku.. hmm naging masaya nanaman ako ulit dahil alam kung may chance na ulit rel namin, till now di kami committed pero nagkikita kami minsan.. ou M.U. lang kami kaya wala akong karapatan na magalit at pag bawalan siya wala din akung ryt para pakialaman siya.. kasalanan ku din kasi masyado akung nag expect na magiging ok pa ang lahat..ayoko din siyang tanungin dahil di ako sigurado sa magiging sagot niya about sa status namin.. sobrang nahihirapan naku.. should i set him free ow what?? HELP??
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cham, u better make d guy decide kung he wanted to be with you or with ur couz,,,first of all ndi mo rin alam kung gano masasaktan ang couz mo pag nalaman niya na nging kayo (if she still doesn’t know till now). isipin mo nlng na nasa kalagayan ka ng couz mo. if the guy really loves u then he will do something about it, to fix his previous relationship and to choose you after setting down his commitment with your couz, I believe that’s the right way and the way kung tlgang mahal ka niya at kung lalaki siya
all you need is to reflect and to introspect, reading ur story….alam mo na kung anong gagawin,,u just keep on denying lang.. first statement mo “how can I let him Go” ,, then the last one says “should i set him free? ” clashing statements but signifies one important thing,,u already know what to do,,let him go.
hi mister love .. THANK YOU FOR YOUR GOOD ADVICE
i really do appreciate it.. anyway.. alam na ng cous ko na naging kami before and she confront me, sinabi niya na napatawad na niya ko , pero ayokong maniwala dahil alam ko sobra ku siyang nasaktan, NOW kami nung guy friends nalang kami pero still nagtatawagan pa kami ng beibi..DEC. 15,2010..biglang nagbago nalang siya .. di ko alam kung bakit?? dun ku nakita na hindi niya ko ganun kamahal.. cguru sakin lang niya nakita yung CARE na kailangan niya kaya napalapit kami.. alam ko magiging ok din ako NOT NOW pero sana darating yung time na magiging ok ang lahat.. ANOTHER CHRISTMAS WITHOUT SOMEONE WHOM I LOVED 
SO SAD BUT I KNOW TIME WILL COME .. thank you mister love
my ex bf left me for no definite reason. i haven’t cried until now, maybe because i am still expecting for him to call or text me and say sorry. sorry is all i want from him. i’m not expecting him to ask me again if we could be together. honestly, i’m sick of it. i still love him but not the kind of love during the early years of our relationship. i want to breakdown, cry so hard like there’s no tomorrow but i can’t. i want to unload my feelings but i can’t. i want to let go and move on but i don’t know how. he was my first bf and my first love. i know that its not easy to move on after all the years we’ve been together. we’ve established a deeper relationship and i was so stupid for thinking that he wouldn’t leave me despite of my being busy. i admit that i didn’t have much time to call or text him recently for we were apart but then i didn’t forget to let him feel my love for him if i had chance. but, everything has changed. there was no third party involved. it was us who let our relationship suffered. he was so reluctant to understand me and i was so sick to be in a kind of rocky relationship. i want to stop the on-off routine, i am already tired of it. i couldn’t even think straight when we were still together. i don’t need a man who think that he can control me and tell me what to do just to please him. i want to please myself and not him. maybe i’m a bit selfish but i gave everything to him but then he devalued all of those things. he failed to realize my worth as a woman.
why is it so hard to leave ur best friend and start all over again i wouldnt even dream of leaving her she is the only person i can talk 2 she is amazing sweet nice kind loving caring i just dont know what 2 do
i no how u fell i dont wont to let my best friend go but i now deep down i have to because there is nothink i can do i love her xx
kelsey i dont want to leave you u are the bestest thing that has happend to me why does this have to happen to use i am gonna promise u sometink when i am 16 /18 i will move bbk down here and i will be with u again u are my best friend ever an its gonna be hard leaving you
kelsey why use why do we have to be sepurated why ?
i dont no but chelsea i will never let eny think happin to u love u hun xxxxxxx
i will never ever let any one hurt u any1 hurts u and i will batter them i promise i have made u a cd with loads of songs on that u like lol
everone thinks its easy to let go of someone so did i till i met my best friend now i dont know what 2 do i got to leave her behind when i do go i will feel like i have left the most important thing apart of me behind (heart) it will feel horrible.
what do i do 
how am i gonna leave without her ? 
i reli dont want to go
its this boy i really like and he stay on my mind twenty four seven we were talking for a month and i finally did something with him because i knew it would make him happy and i thought it could bring us closer since we had been talkin bout getn serious but i was wrong ever since then i talked to him once and i feel so played because i told myself i wouldnt let that happen and i know now i made a mistake that i cant take back and im trying to get over him but its so hard..what should i do?
haist, SMP ako now =(( sino hanap ng kadate sa pasko heres my FB
madaling tanggapin na nambabae ang asawa mo ang hindi ko matanggap yung sinira ang buong pagkatao ko sa babae nya. so it’s not hard to let go dahil wala syang kwentang tao
You are right Marie!! It’s not hard to let go the kind of person he is, because he is not worth and you need not to cry over the spilled milk!!! He might be your love one but the reality he is trash, he is nothing !! so let go and give yourself exactly the respect due to you and he has no reason at all to ruin your dignity coz he no right at all..No body know the real you except YOU..So go on and make the best of your life..Cheers !!!
Letting go is the hardest thing to do ; there comes a time in life when letting go is the most important thing to do . This helps you get over that person and also move on with your life with out being down .
– noOng isang linggo lang masaya kaming mgkasama pero bakit ni2ng mga nakaraang araw bigla syng lumamig sa akin?? ganyan ba talaga ang mga lalaki?? ..akala q hnd na matatapOs ang kaligayahang nararamdaman q ngaUn!!
everytime na tinatanOng q cia kung ano ang problema pana’y sabi lang nia na wala daw.. pero ramdam q na may kakaiba sa kanya, babaliwalain q nalang ba ito?? mag pre’pretend lang ba aq na ok lang lahat??!! ..hnd q na alam kUng ano ang nangyayari sa relasyOn namin, malungkot at nasasaktan aq sa ipinapakita nia.
– alam nia na mahal na mahal q cia.. sa kanya lang umiikOt ang mUndo q, pero sa tingin q wala na aqng halaga sa kanya at hnd lang nia masabi, huhuhu
– ipagpapa2lOy q pa ba ang relasyOn namin o aq na mismo ang gagawa ng hakbang para mgkahiwalay kami?? pero inaamin q na wala aqng lakas ng loOb para iwanan cia, MAHAL q talaga cia.
–hahai sana makakuha aq ng payo sa in-U.. GOdblEz u ol and advance merry xmas and happy new year.
hahaha kalma lang,,correct me if i was wrong pero u said na ok naman xia nung nakaraang linggo ?? wag ka masyadong praning,, konti lang ang span ng time na ginwa mong basehan to come up with that kind of judgement. Don’t think too much,, observe for a week or if ur a patient woman, month/s…di naman matutumbasan ng linggo or buwan na observation at pagaanalyze mo if may nagawa kang masama or what ,sa taong (years) sakit na mararamdaman mo pag nagletgo at nawalay ka sa isang taong alam mong minsan lang dadaan sa buhay mo at sa taong mahal na mahal mo
– break na kami.. at hapi aq sa ngaun.. hehe
Actally I think this is the really meaning of letting go:
We let go because we have too, We let go because we think we they don’t need us, but we really let go because because sometimes its worth enough time to see if it willcome back.
yeah thats right…letting go because we have too…
i know naman na di ako ang totoong nyang mahal.di ko lang sya nagawang pakawalan kase mahal ko sya and di pa nakarecover sa paguwi nya sa pinas,but now i realized na i let go na sya.i know nahihiya sya malaman ng mga friends nya ang about sakin. And takot din sya malaman ng x nya n may gf n sya..mahal ko sya but i need to let him go.sometimes need natin i let go ang isang not just bcoz you love him or her very much kundi for your self na din dahil masyado ka na nasasaktan.di na nga siguro uso ang martir ngayon..
.,UhM wat f ur tryng to hold oN for d sake of ur kidz tama p rin b n maglet go?yah its hard to let go…buT im tireD of h0lding oN paulit ulit din nMan ung mga pRob n0thng change per0 Wat shud i do?
Lets make it the opposite way of not letting him go because of the kids, why not let him go for the sake of the kids at least by this moment of time you still have a respect to each other..Coz time will come if the same problem will always occur you might lose respect and trust ; you will not be the only one to get hurt but also your kids..Time will come they will understand why you made a decision, that you let go the person who was then a part of your kids life..Anyway he still part of your kids life afterall he is still the father and no one can erase the reality..You have to let go and start moving on for the better life ahead.. God Bless and happy holiday !!!
i have had a very long relationship with someone.. almost ten years. we’re not yet married and have never lived with each other. Every now and then our differences would surface and most of the time we just shrug it off our shoulders. Recently I realized, this attitude is actually pulling as apart from each other. I’ve been feeling uneasy these days, demanding for much attention and really pushing myself to him..much to his dismay..now he doesn’t even want to talk to me.. I’m alarmed, r we heading to the end? This sounds pathetic but I do love this person and I want to make this work..Is this the right thing to do? or is it time to let it go?
its depend what will make u feel better i think if it is like this you should talk to him and if it get surted out stay with him if not let him go but it what u feel inside
i got a bf i have been seeing him for 1 week and 1 day but in 2011 i am moving to yorkshire and have 2 leave my best friends and bf behind i have liked him since yeaar 4 now i am seeing him i got 2 go also i have to leave my best friend behind my mum and dad said that she could come and stay but she said she probley wont rember me i dont want 2 go i have grew up around here my mum and dad said i have 2 make new friends and meet new people i dont want new friends and i dont want to meet new people i just dont know what 2 do
i hate it when u have a best friend and then u got to go u become so close then u still got to go my parent dont undrstand how hard it is for me to leave but all they want is a new start i dont know whta 2 do i reli dont when i go bk 2 school i got totell all my friends that i am moving school and home and never see them again it gonna be so hard for me i dont want 2 go know one understands me i feel like just running away and never cuming bk
Hi everyOne…i just found this cool site today since i am looking for a nice quotes bout letting go…letting go of someone i really loved. It really hurts. Situation is quite complicated. As much as i don’t want to quit with our relationship but i really have to. It’s really hard to set someone free where your mind says yes it’s alright to let go but your heart says “NO”
letting go of some1 u love is not easy..napaka hirap..lalo na kung xa ang una bumitaw…mahal ka niya pero hindi nya kayang ipaglaban un..words r not enough..pro ang hirap kalimutan lalo na kung may ngpapaalala sa inyo nakaraan..very hard 2 expect for nothing..but stil ur hoping someday that u wil be together..i stil love him…but i want to move on coz i knw we cannot be…bakit ko pa xa nakilala kung hindi rin pala kmi at d end..its really hurt..ang hirap magmahal ulit..sana makalimutan ko na xa…hopefully..
if i saw him i dnt knw wat wil happen…bec.he said he wil comeback..katulad pa din kya ng dati..minsan iniisip ko minahal nya ba ako tlga???minsan diko marandaman na importante ako sa kanya..although dina man kmi ng break kmi pa din pro wla ng expectation sa isat isa coz he’s very far frm me en we have diff.culture…kung bumalik man xa d2 sa dubai sana maayos…
We were 2 years and 5 months together. We broke up… but we’re still in contact. When we see each other on street we don’t talk… only on msn.. or facebook :/.. I still love him and I think he does too. He’ll go to study in other contry and I’m scared that he will fall in love with other girl… Could someone give me advice what should I do…?!?
Thanks
hey, my story started almost three years ago. i fell in love, and as they say love is blind. i cant say i was happy i cant say i was feeling bad. it was okay, but most importantly it was love. i lived days ive never lived before, i felt something tht i never felt before. i was crazy about him. and still.. everything was going so fine until last dec. he started uni. and i was at home, because i had some issues and culdnt start with uni. anyway, i found out he was cheating on me this whole time i was at home. i basicly found out on my birthday, i got really heart broken. when i saw him with just two words i forgave him, days pass. i start school. and i am all normal with him. he comes to me and says he is forced to study abroad. i was in a state of shock. then he left. deep inside me the cheating hit me when he travelled. i dont know why, he really regreted. but i couldnt be the same ever since he left. i started going crazy. we were supposedly in a Long distance, ive cheated. he came back and we fixed things. he travelled again, i got to know new people, i started doing worse things. going out seeing many different people. i became a player. but not one single day i he left my mind. becaus i know i cant love anyone else, whenever he is around i dont see anyone around me i just see him, the problem is that he heard everything i have done for the past months he was away. he says he wont forget. and before i used to see a future between us. now i cant. i feel it is all over. finish. its like he would never marry someone who did all the things i did for the past months. its not my fault. he is far from me, i need someone to be by my side.i still didnt get over anything. i wasnt ready for him to leave right away after everything. it was hard. he is in the same country. i dont know what to do. everytime i see him, he tells me what i did. i am tired. i wish i could press rewind and remove the mistakes ive made. i never meant to do any. it wasnt me. i dont know what i should do. culd any one advice me, in english or arabic please. thank you.
Barbie, what you did surely hurt your partner. You have to remember that women can forgive faster than men. You hurt his ego. And the fact that you cheated on him a lot of times, means that you are in search for something more than what your partner can give you. Reflect upon yourself and think logically. Do you really love him or you just got used to having him around? Try to think over it without letting your emotions affect your thoughts. It’s hard but its the only way to deal with it. I wish you well. Last but not the least, do pray for it. God Bless..
I was in the situation I never expected I can be in…ni ndi ko ma imagine sa buhay ko dat I loved a married…pero I never regret..alam ko minahal nya din ako…kaya lng the situation was getting complicated….and I was being selfish wanting him na sana sakin nlng cya…pero ndi pwede…ang hirap I let go ng isang bagay na gusto mo pa pero wala kang choice kundi bitawan cya kc un ung tama at un ung makakabuti sa nakakarami…kailangan ko isakripisyo ang sarili kong kaligayahan para skanya at sa pamilya nya…ang hirap..sobrang sakit…it was easy giving up pero ndi gnun kadali mag let go and mag move on….i miss him so much..pero kelangan ko tiisin cya khit anong pilit nya na bumalik skin…ang sakit ireject ang ng taong mahal mo…
Hi rai,
I congratulate you for having the courage to let go. This means that you love your partner enough to choose that option even if its not favorable to you. Stay strong and never give up. Someone out there is waiting for you. God Bless.
thanks….yup i loved him more enough…
nhhrpn ako ngaun, almost 9 yrs na kmi, wla png anak til now. how can i let her go? pls help me.
sa 9 yrs namin mdalas kami ngaaway. khit maliit lang ang dhilan. as of now hwalay kami, sawa nako sa pgging nagger nya, ako naman nggalit cya sa palgi kong paginom. i want to hear ur comment.
Bje,
Are you guys married? If not and you’re not happy with the relationship perhaps your partner is experiencing the same thing. Talk about it, try to compromise in such ways that both of you will benefit. Give it another try. Then if its not really going to work, I guess giving up is an option. Good luck and pray hard. God Bless.
isa bng dahilan ang ndi kau magka anak kaya u want to let go of her?
rai,
hindi po.
hail,
tnx po, we’ll try.
How can I let him go? I don’t wanna lose him.
Pero wala na kmeng communication now. I don’t know why. We broke up then after 1 month, he came back and asking for second chance. I thought he already changed na pero sa una lang pla. :[ Simula ng malaman nyang mahal ko prin sya nakampante ata sya. kaya bumalik ulit sa date. tas lagi pa syang natutuwa if nagseselos ako sa mga EX nya. 
ayoko syang i let go pero wala na syang naibibigay na reasons para mag hold on ako e. 
Help!
Hi lovely,
Maybe you’re holding on to him because of your ego. The fact that he had past relationships and that he wants to be with you now somehow elevated your self-esteem. There’s really nothing wrong with that but the thing is, you have to be certain in your heart that you are really willing to be with this person. Regardless of his mistakes and shortcomings. And search your heart, have you really forgiven him for his past faults? Holding a grudge with someone as close as a partner is like a poison that kills the relationship little by little without you noticing it. Watch out.
The reason why we broke up is because of too much jealousy. He’s so close with other girls and yung friends nya din is halos lahat girls. He’s not gay.
But the hardest part here is, kaaway ko po yung friends nyang yun. And may mga times na parang inaagaw nila yung attention nya from me. And ako naman, sige lang kse nga friends nya yun and almost 3 years na silang magkakasama, eh ako 1 year pa lng. Minsan din nwawalan na sya ng time sken. Especially nung 1st monthsary nmen. He was with his friends that time. Hindi nga ako pinansin eh. Pero wala naman na yun sken now. Napatawad ko naman na sya. Kaya lang hindi ko po alam kung panu ulit mabubuo yung Trust ko sknya.
hello guys.. i need your help..
i am a filipino and my bf is an indian. we were in a relationship for 5 years.
We still together pro I know, our relationship is complicated.
He told me nung una palang na hindi kami legal and indian ang gusto ng family nya for him. but I still insist ti continue the relationship.
time goes by, he told me, try namin onti onti, dumating na ung panahon na,sabi nya, we have to stop the relationship kasi daw hindi nya ako nakikita sa future nya, pro i still insist na i continue ung relationship.That happened last October 2010, then, naging okay ulit kami, pro i feel the coldness na sa knya, pro we still talk, then, nov, he told me again to move on, and same old story, ayoko pa din bumitaw, then, that month din, nov. his father past away, then this month, he told me, we have to say our goodbyes na daw kasi he will follow what his father wanted at un din naman ang gusto nya, pro i know, mahal nya pa din ako, we still communicate with each other and everytime na tatanungin ko sya kung sino ang mahal nya, he’ll say, ako daw..
alam ko, naguguluhan lang sya, alam ko na ako ang mahal nya..
then, last wik, i texted him and i told him, i will let him go, kasi un ang gusto nya, then he called me up, tinanong nya kung ano daw ibig sabihin nun?
hindi ko sinagot ung tanong nya na un, then naputol ung conversation namin, bung tumawag ulit sya, hindi ko na sinagot then next day, i called him up and parang walang nangyari. hindi na namin napag usapan ung tinext ko..
i love him so much..
i dont know what to do..
i know he loves me, pro naguguluhan na sya sa gusto ng family nya at sa gusto nya talagang gawin.
what should i do?please help. thank you.
bkit klangan umasa at mgmahal ng sobra kng s huli klangan mgpaAlam/.
guys, klangan q ng 2long nyo.. mron n akong baby at since pinanganak q xa ndi n ngparamdam ung tatay ng anak q, gusto ko mang klimutan xa kpag nki2ta q ung baby paulit=ulit qlang naala2 at nsa2ktan prin aq..
ano b ang dpat qng gwin?
hello..thanks for the comment,, yung baby mo nalang ang gawin mong lakas para makalimutan mo sya.. ibigay mo nalang lahat ng pagmamahal sa baby nyo.. kaya mo yan, pray ka lang.. alam ko, mahirap at masakit pro in time malalaman mo din at masasagot mo lahat ng mga tanong mo kung bakit nangyari sayo ang lahat ng yan.. everything happen for a reason,, god is love. take care.. god bless.
i cant let go:-( i love her so much………..